A great way to arouse someone you’re not nearby is through phone sex, not a phone sex hotline but phone sex with your partner. It’s similar to talking dirty, but since you can’t do that in your lover’s presence until you’re face to face, make do in the meantime with some hot and heavy sessions over the phone.
A great way to get started is to ask what your partner is wearing that night and then “mmm” at the response. Start slowly by saying how you would touch your partner if he or she were nearby, and then work up to the point where both of you are saying all of the things you would do to each other.
Dial Up the Excitement with Phone Sex
Sighing and moaning are important in the bedroom but even more so here as your lover can only sense your desire through your voice.
Eventually it might lead to you each imagining you’re having sex with the other in person and describing those actions while the other person masturbates.
Overall, it can be a very positive shared experience that can bring couples closer together.
